{"id":1057,"date":"2015-09-20T00:19:06","date_gmt":"2015-09-19T22:19:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.levinuet.nu\/?p=1057"},"modified":"2015-09-20T00:19:06","modified_gmt":"2015-09-19T22:19:06","slug":"i-smartan-ser-vi-karleken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/blog\/2015\/09\/20\/i-smartan-ser-vi-karleken\/","title":{"rendered":"I sm\u00e4rtan ser vi k\u00e4rleken"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jag har t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 en sak den sista tiden. Ju mer vi \u00e4lskar n\u00e5gon, ju ondare g\u00f6r det om vi drabbas negativt p\u00e5 grund av n\u00e5got som har med den individen att g\u00f6ra. K\u00e4rleken till ett barn \u00e4r sv\u00e5r att m\u00e4ta. Den \u00e4r s\u00e5 stor att den inte \u00e4r m\u00e4tbar. K\u00e4rlek \u00e4r dessutom ett ganska abstrakt begrepp. &#8221;Jag \u00e4lskar dig till m\u00e5nen och tillbaks&#8221;. N\u00e4r ett barn d\u00f6r sm\u00e4rtar det s\u00e5 att jag inte kan f\u00f6rst\u00e5 hur det n\u00e5gonsin ska kunna sm\u00e4rta mer. Det sm\u00e4rtar s\u00e5 att man tappar k\u00e4nseln (antagligen ett fysiologiskt f\u00f6rsvar) f\u00f6r att sedan b\u00f6rja f\u00e5 k\u00e4nnas mer igen, n\u00e4r vi kan b\u00e4ra sm\u00e4rtan. <\/p>\n<p>K\u00e4rleken till en f\u00f6r\u00e4lder h\u00e5ller oavsett vad som h\u00e4nder i livet, i alla fall enligt min erfarenhet. Det kanske \u00e4r annorlunda f\u00f6r dig som l\u00e4sare. Men visst \u00e4r det v\u00e4l s\u00e5 att de vi \u00e4lskar mest kan s\u00e5ra oss v\u00e4rst? Vi f\u00e5r mer ont p\u00e5 insidan om n\u00e5gon vi \u00e4lskar s\u00e5rar oss, \u00e4n om en vanlig v\u00e4n eller bekant s\u00e5rar oss. S\u00e5 i den st\u00f6rsta sm\u00e4rtan finns den st\u00f6rsta k\u00e4rleken. S\u00e5 sm\u00e4rtar det s\u00e5 inneb\u00e4r det n\u00e5got negativt. Men samtidigt \u00e4r det positiva sj\u00e4lva k\u00e4rleken, paradoxalt nog. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag har t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 en sak den sista tiden. Ju mer vi \u00e4lskar n\u00e5gon, ju ondare g\u00f6r det om vi drabbas negativt p\u00e5 grund av n\u00e5got som har med den individen att g\u00f6ra. K\u00e4rleken till ett barn \u00e4r sv\u00e5r att m\u00e4ta. Den \u00e4r s\u00e5 stor att den inte \u00e4r m\u00e4tbar&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[25,34],"class_list":["post-1057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-acceptans","tag-karlek","tag-smarta"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1057","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1057"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1057\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tronestam.nu\/levinuet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}